Im sorry m8 but you dont have a point... really...
for a game of this size, magnitude and complexity it has incredible low amount of bugs, the AI is better than ever (even tho people say high lvl sneaking is over the top, dunno havnt reach high levels with sneak yet), there are some pathing issues, but even those are few.
as for balance, most of the complaints are just people having a problem learning to use stuff thats all, there are obviously issues with most skills/builds, but hardly gamebreaking at all, magic is pretty good if played properly., people complaining about destruction usually dont use it well.
as for the awckwards events like the coin stealing thing... well thereso nly so much mechanics and code/script that can be put into a game this big dont you think? they could have changed all the theft coding for that particular case I guess... but meh is all the rouble worth it just for that tiny weeny detail?
THAT broke your immerssion? really? I gues being the best most detailed living world ever built on any rpg has no bearing because you stole from a npc you were doing a shackedown

best rpg ever,
No thats you and your biased opinion. This game lacks so many things other great RPG's have.
(In my book, Baldur's Gate 1 and 2 are the best RPG's ever)
And what do you mean for 'A game this size and complexity"?
I don't have the promised AMAZING 'Radiant' AI.
I didn't get this really epic and awesome main story. it was average at best, like Mass Effect, only a bit worse. Okay alot worse really.
The game is only 5.1 Gigs big....a game that came out in 2010 that was an RTS was 12 gigs big. thats more then 2x the size of Skyrim
Only a 1 gig difference from Skyrim to Oblivion.
Sorry, but Bethesda should have waited another year before bringing this game out, no matter how great it already looked.