Why should we hate you? And what to expect?
Well...first thing you should know about TES games is that it's an open world. You'll be given a starting quest, but after that you're on your own. Feel free to explore, find other quests, start the main quest, dungeon dive, it's completely up to you. There is no right or wrong way to do things.
The other thing to remember is that TES is not easy- you'll have to level your skills to be a decent fighter/mage/thief/whatever, so don't be disappointed when you can't burn down entire villages at level 2. Many many hours of gameplay are required to become godlike. Don't be discouraged, just use your skills! A LOT.
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And come back whenever you have questions. As you can see with Morrowind and Oblivion, there are several specialized forums full of crazy fans just waiting to answer your questions on where that cave is, why that NPC won't talk to you, or how to level that skill. Use the community and eventually you'll become part of it.
One of us...one of us...