and if its not the best game then what is the best game of this type cause i want to play a game that is bigger and better than skyrim. so please fill me in.
My goodness, I've seen TES games implied, but not said outright... unless I'm missing something. Ok, her you go...
If you like Skyrim, the closest thing to it is Oblivion. They feel very much alike... seeing that Skyrim is the next chapter.
If you like the looks and feel of Skyrim and Oblivion, try Fallout 3. Many people say it is Oblivion with guns. I didn't think I would care for that idea, but it is just as good as Oblivion... definitely just as fun.
Now I'm going to introduce you to the ancestors of Skyrim. And it's the changes that Skyrim has made from them that makes many of us upset...
Morrowind... my personal favorite TES game. It doesn't look like Skyrim, but it still in a full 3D world. If you get the newer graphics enhancers, it can look just as good as Oblivion. Play it. It's for your own good. You'll thank me later. You can take that to the bank.
Daggerfall... the king of TES. The biggest, the baddest. It was what TES was meant to be. A game-world so big, you will NEVER walk across it. In fact, you will probably never even walk anywhere outside of a city or inside of a dungeon. Over 62,000 miles of world. Play it, live it, love it. You may just die in it before you finish it. And there's no excuse whatsoever to not try it... because you can get it here for free...
http://www.elderscrolls.com/daggerfall/
You will need http://www.dosbox.com/download.php?main=1 to play it, though. Read through these http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Daggerfall:Running_Under_DOSBox#Daggerfall_.28free_release.29 also.
If you just want to save all of that work, you could just download http://theelderscrolls.wiwiland.net/?title=Daggerfall_:_DaggerfallSetup_EN. Supposedly, it is ready-to-play without all of the tinkering. I haven't tried it, though, so no guarantee.
As for other games, Dragon Age: Origins is very nice. So is the "Tales" series. Tales of Symphonia is incredible. The sequel is descent... but nothing compared to the first. Tales of Vesperia is quite similar to the first.
While it's not an RPG, Half-Life 2 is AMAZING. Mount & Blade is great if you like large-scale first-person medieval combat. Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic is also a classic.