so I'm debating with a friend about the events that lead up to the night of tears and said that the Nords did nothing to provoke the attack I said the Nords weren't respecting the customs and religious laws of the falmer, but I can remember the source or wether it was just a theory floating round here lol.

so my question is was it a theory or is there a source I can quote, any and all help would be greatly appreciated