I play an FCOM++ game and I like it, but I play a thief character and sometimes the stealth portion is a little unrealistic/lame.
I tried Reneers guard overhaul, I liked how the guards followed you when they saw you sneaking, but I didn't like the other features.
Suggestions for stealth and guard mods?

Also, is there a mod that makes guards follow you if you pull out your weapon in a town?

-Thanks

http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1093197-running4covers-list-of-stealth-mods-2nd-thread

A few I've played around with:

T.I.E.
SM Regional Bounty
SM Combat Hide
Hear No Evil
Morrowind Lockpicking
Duke Patrick's Fresh Kills Now Alert the NPCs
Duke Patrick's Near Miss Arrows and Magic Alert the NPCs

note: not all of those *help* with being stealthy (as in, make it easier) !

I'm sure there are more, but I can't remember right now...

Game Tweaks... - http://tesivpositive.animolious.com/?page=downloading_mods#GameTweaks <-- See the Guides section here.

RGO is extremely customizable as a rule. What parts of the mod didn't you enjoy?

And if you say the Disguises I'll simply tell you to not use them.