Load a savegame where you still have your missing companion with you.
Open the console by hitting the tilde ` key.
Click on your companion. This will show his/her reference ID#.
Write that down somewhere.
Load the game where your companion is lost.
Open up the console again, and type without the quotes "prid referenceID", and substitute the reference ID number you wrote down for where it says "referenceID"
Type, again without the quotes "moveto player"
Your companion should magically appear near you.
Worked for me, hope it works for you.