In what way is treating you as one would treat any other person judging you as if you were incompetent? If anything, those who would look the other way are treating you as incompetent.
Warning: If you're afraid of even the thought of spiders, you may want to skip this next paragraph.
It doesn't matter if they remove spiders from Skyrim. Because if your sitting in a chair in front of a computer desk which is situated against a wall, and especially so if it's situated in a corner, then it's most probable that there is a spider within a meter of you right now. Quite likely more than one. If you're sitting on a bed or a sofa with a laptop, then there is likely a spider within a meter of you. If you're in your kitchen and near a refrigerator which isn't flush against the floor or back wall, or if you have drawers and cabinets, then there is likely a spider within a meter of you. If you are outdoors and in a climate that is regularly above freezing temperature then it is almost assured that there is a spider within a meter of you, if not a foot. Yet you've survived your whole life in a world where you've been more outnumbered by spiders than you could possibly even imagine. There likely won't be a 'spider' option, as mentioned it would be an awful precedent. And there will certainly be mods that remove them. You can download them if you want. But when it comes to irrational fear and addiction, what makes you feel better is often not what is going to help you move past it. That's your decision to make, but don't blame other people for being honest about it.
Yeah...although I'm well aware of this fact, I try not to think about it... Just let me continue deluding myself--if I can't see it, therefore it doesn't exist... :ninja:
I wasn't trying to jump on people, but I just want you to be a little more understanding. That's all.
We shouldn't be afraid of them, and yes...we're surrounded by them (*shudders*) but it's a pretty serious thing to one who can't help being afraid... I'm still working on it--I will until I get over the fear, or I'll die trying... :violin:
However, I do understand where the lack of sympathy is coming from. It's more understandable than having an irrational fear... And again, though I detest spiders, I'm kind of glad they'll be in the game, so I can enjoy annihilating them... :toughninja:
No, no love for arachnids, though they do have a purpose in this world...