I'm actually kinda concerned about the inclusion of spiders in Skyrim, as sad as that sounds, haha. Of course I'll just svck it up and buy Skyrim anyways. But do any of you hate spiders as much as I do?
I understand how you feel. I used to be terrified of spiders,i have been for as long as i can remember,same with heights.
I'm 35 now....and one day i thought to myself it's time to challenge your fears.
Now as regarding heights,i'm still terrified,not had much luck there so far.
But with spiders,i'm still fearfull of them,but not as bad as i used to be.
I thought to myself...instead of fearing them,why not show an interest and appreciate them.....this was tough to do....i won't lie.
Anyway.....i made myself watch spiders ,be it TV programs or in the garden.
I would watch them make their webs,catch their food wrap it up etc.
If i was at a save distance,i didn't mind so much....it was fasinating to watch.
I'm at the stage now where i can watch them,be it in games,the garden or on TV....i tried to change my fear into admiration.
I have even picked up smaller spiders,but when it comes to average or bigger ones,i still freak out a little,but i'm able to compose myself better.
One day i know i'll be able to pick bigger spiders up.
Everyone is different,and i feel sorry for people who have a strong fear for spiders,even to the extent of hating them in games.
I have slowly lessed my fear,though it's still there,it's not as bad.
Maybe others should try what i did.......i'm no expert,i just wanted to mention what i did,to ease the fear a little.
Just try and watch them,try and turn that fear to interest....like i said i'm now at the point where i can watch them in the garden,and it's really interesting to see how they make webs etc.
What works for one person doesn't mean it will work for another....but either way,a fear has to be faced in my opinion.
Sorry to have waffled on