Why do you view having a choice as a bad thing? Why do people need to play the game the way you want them to? How does it affect you, how I play the game?
Seems off to me to say "I like the starting areas, so it should be mandatory that everyone do them!" I like crafting, it should be mandatory that everyone level each of the crafting professions! I like PvP, it should be mandatory that everyone be forced to PvP.
Isn't the beauty of the TES series is that it's a open, do what you like world?
I'm new to this series, I didn't know there was hype around getting to the Main City. I wonder how many other people don't know that getting to "the city" is a big part of playing the game.