As I said, of course I would love to have no (or minimal) DRM on my software, but that is not an option for most software today. I want to play NV, so this is not where I will take my stand against DRM or online activation, not when I see the way ALL software is going.
So basically because other software company are using online activation it makes it okay and we shouldn't complain about it ? So if tomorrow most game studio decide together to use always an Ubi-like DRM it will also be okay because others are going it too ? Personally when there is something I don't like I think it's more "productive" to complain and try to make it change rather than silently accept it.
The fact is, software is increasingly a dynamic entity--it's not static like a book. It changes over time, requires patches and updates, and that sort of activity means that an internet connection is increasingly part of the system requirements to play modern games. You might as well complain about needing a video card.
Come on, most games gets what, maybe 1 or 2 patch before they are forgotten by their editor, especially single player games, those who continue to patch their games after one or two years are a minority. Unless it's a multiplayer one an Internet access is totally useless for playing most games.
(At the risk of sounding like an old geezer, I would rather have company debugging their games before they release them rather than counting on the Internet to help them correct their mistakes after you pay for them.)
The other thing is, even with your old games with disk-check or no DRM, how long do expect to be able to install them? Chances are, a few more operating systems along, they won't work out-of-the-box. There might be a patch or emulator to make them work, but likely you'll have to be online to find them.
There is a huge difference between having to be online do download a tool/emulator/patch allowing to play the game you once bought and being online hopping that the activation server for a game you bought 5 years ago is still up and running and will still let you reactivate your game. (And given how editor are keen to have you re-buy old stuff over and over again (PSN, Virtual Console, Live, etc..) I wouldn't count too much on it.)
A nice thing about Steam, by the way, is all the old games that they have for very cheap, all patched up and ready to play on your modern computer.
You can get the same from GoG with much better support and no DRM.
All I'm saying is that this issue is being blown out of proportion. Internet connectivity has become a part of the landscape, and it is not unreasonable for modern software to want to take advantage of that (for your benefit as well as the publisher's).
You makes it sound like that just because the Internet exists and peoples use it then it's okay for software or media companies to abuse from it any way they want, just because they can doesn't means they should, and even if from a cynical business point of view they "should" it doesn't means that we, as customer, should accept it.
The time will come soon enough, thanks to OnLive and other "cloud" thingy, where fair use and customer rights will be a thing of the past, but let's not make it happen even faster.