Its frustrating I agree. But what can you do?
If you honestly want to stop playing because of it then don't buy the dlcs and don't buy any subsequent installments of the game.
If you ARE gonna continue playing then adapt to the conditions or live with the consequences of not adapting. I myself save manually every 5-15 min and have about 12 game saves lined up at all times. And im not the only one that goes through such measures.
I was looking to see if anyone had a for a SOLUTION to the issue, not trying to have a moral conversation about whether you should manually save every 5 minutes or not.
This is what is frusterating, IGN scores:
Elder Scolls IV: Oblivion - 9.2
Fallout 3 - 9.4
Fallout New Vegas - 8.5
I pre-bought expecting at least a 9, and got a piece of crap that requires me to save every five minutes. And it's really disappointing because given that and WET, which got a 6.6, it looks like Bethesda is going downhill. Which is REALLY disappointing because Oblivion and Fallout 3 had some really cool, revolutionary things in them.
I traded in the game for Red Dead Redemption (IGN - 9.7) and I haven't looked back. It definitely doesn't have these kinds of issues, and I can save in key places in the plot instead of conmensating for sub-standard production.
With all multitude of games that are out there these days I really don't think it's unreasonable to expect quality.