1. The guy from the Drow house who talked to me
2. A marked passage that he said he would have for me.
Am I doing something wrong? I ended up wandering around the Underdark for an hour or so and just got retardedly lost (is there a way to make the Underdark have its own world map?, even if it's another addon someone has made or something), so any help would be appreciated

Other than that, it's a great mod

Oh, actually, for the first "Viconia DeVir ? Banished, The Underdark Saga Part I" do you actually go to Underdark, or is the entry saying 'I own her, etc etc" the last part? And will I still have my current progress in our relationship with her (I chose romance) when I untick it and switch on Part III?
Thanks

Make sure Stoker is the active quest. If it is you will see one quest target for Stoker and another for the direction you are supposed to go.
Part 1 of Viconia is done when the quest log says that you are ready for the next part of your relationshiip. Should be stage 254.
In the next part you will have a choice whether you want to stay in a romance with her or not.