yeah that makes sense. doing it is another thing though
Does TES4Edit have an actual troubleshoot document with error definitions? The more I use TES4Edit, heh, the more I want to be familiar with it because it's such a good tool. Also, is Wrye Bash the only tool to change a mods load order? I'm working on yet another pair of esm's and plugins that either 1) seems to have an endless master loop (much like what I had earlier), 2) the esm has a wrong load order, or 3) has both problems. It definitely has the wrong load order, this much I know but I haven't used Wrye Bash, yet at the moment I have changed a load order before. I just can't remember which utility it was. :wacko:
the worst of it is that I can't load the paired esm's because one loads before oblivion, and while I tried espifying them, the same that loads first as an esm now calls on itself as the esm master. Does that make sense? Does TES4Edit have an actual troubleshoot document with error definitions?Yes! You're reading it! Isn't that great? (Some might interpret that as more of a "No!"

) Elminster never got around to producing any form of proper guide or indeed much of any documentation for TES4Edit outside of the Beth threads. So the best place to look for info is in all the threads that have been created by Elminster for TES4Edit. If you get stuck, you'll have to PM Elminster since he hasn't posted here for quite some time now.
Also, is Wrye Bash the only tool to change a mods load order?No, you can use Oblivion Mod Manager (OBMM) instead to adjust load order. Note that when I suggested changing load order, that was only assuming that load order was wrong for the master mods. If the load order was right, then don't change it just to get copy as override to work; instead you should follow the other route I suggested (which I use all the time to transfer a record from a dependent ESP up into a master ESP or ESM).
1) seems to have an endless master loopThat's easy to confirm - launch the window in the CS to select the files you want to enable, and check the box on the right-side, which lists masters. If one of them shows itself as master, you have a loop (Wrye Bash can tell you too - install Wrye Bash!).
2) the esm has a wrong load orderAs aellis said, use TES4Gecko to correct master list load order. Do NOT try to use TES4Edit for this.
I can't load the paired esm's because one loads before oblivionUse Wrye Bash or OBMM to ensure that all ESMs are loading after Oblivion.esm.
I tried espifying themDon't do that. Don't ESPify an ESM - you should only ever need to ESMify an ESP, and thus afterwards ESPify that ESMified ESP. When ESM/ESPifying files, they'll still have the same file extension they had before (an ESP will still be named blah.esp after ESMifying) but the CS will think it's an ESM, allowing you to use it as a master to another ESP. But always ESPify an ESMified ESP before using it in-game else you'll get bugged.
the same that loads first as an esm now calls on itself as the esm masterMaster loop. You've had a little accident somewhere along the way here.