okay i've read through but it doesnt mention anywhere if OBMM is a easy download or if it takes a lot of work to maintain... it mentions it with .omod files, as its a good source to put .omod files inside... but otherwise nothing. I did learn a few new things though thanks
but my problem is still here so I would appreciate any more help anyone can give me thanks
Did you see the category that says 'How to install plug-ins manually'? Read that one and follow the instructions. You can use omods later. And why should it mention whether it's easy to maintain or easy to download? It doesn't say it is hard to maintain or hard to download, that should give you a clue.
Most mods also have a readme with installation instructions. It is a good idea to read the readme, especially when you're new to installing mods.