This is a very tenuous connection. Plenty of things create and destroy--construction workers, for example. There's nothing anarchic about a construction site, however. And in the end, Mundus is like a very large construction site that was built using the limbs of the construction workers themselves...
That's not to say that there aren't some anarchic aspects to some gods, of course. Boethiah, for instance, is a Daedric Prince whose sphere includes "the unlawful overthrow of authority." That does not, however, mean that every Daedric Prince includes this sphere of influence (though I'm sure the process of overthrowing authority probably requires someone to use aspects of other Princes in their quest), and it certainly doesn't mean that all the Aedra are willing to go along with it, either. In the end, claiming that the gods of TES represent anarchy is like saying that the gods of any polytheistic pantheon represent anarchy: While some might, others most certainly do not, and taken as a whole they actually represent the sometimes-chaotic (but usually well-patterned) order of the universe.