I don't know what that means, but yay for you! Hope it turns out great (I so wanna hear what happened, but I don't think you'll wanna share... I'll live, I guess :hehe: ).
So my family has just given me my biggest :blink: moment in life ever. My mom commented on how I'll be turning 21 in a couple months and said she should start buying beer and what not now so that I can "enjoy" my 21st birthday like she did. I told her that I wasn't gonna be drinking on my 21st birthday nor would I be at any point after that. This surprised and angered her for some reason. She did the whole "You must be adopted" thing she always says when I piss her off and proceeded to tell the rest of my family about this. I tell em the same thing and add in, just to be clear to them, that I'm straightedge and this sends them all into a blind rage with me. I explain exactly what it is and it doesn't do anything except cause most to be pissed with me and my mom and dad "disowning" me.
They will calm down eventually. I think that would be a good time to ask them what the reason for this rage is. What does drinking beer and having "real" parties represent to them? The way I see it, you telling them that you're straightedge is somehow ruining the image they have of you, it's going against their own firmly grounded views of what you (or a man in general) should ideally behave like. They are conservative and this kind of thing breaks their stability, so to speak, they are angry that you chose another way, when they thought they had control the entire time. It's not uncommon for one's family to attempt to 'direct' them throughout their life and then get outraged when they find out their son/daughter is doing things their own way. Which, of course, doesn't justify their reactions in any way.
Naturally, I know nothing about your family, so I may be off here, but it wouldn't surprise me if this were the case.