The Pale is in the wrong location first of all. Ever heard of the Pale pass in Oblivion? It leads into Skyrim. Why do you think its called The Pale Pass?
And here I was just about to post about how the Pale is in the wrong location on
your map. The one Dragonbone posted is based on the official map we've seen in several preview videos - it may be
incomplete in some ways, but all the information on it is 100% definite.
And it's called the Pale Pass because it's pale. More than one thing can be pale.