The Skyrim forums are like a big, loud frat party. :rock: :mellow: :verymad: :unsure2: :flamed: :flamethrower: Most of it is just noise, and situations happen fast. Fights break out all the time, people slight one another, etc. There are pockets of people there who are nicer than the usual frat party goers, but depending on the thread, they're usually a minority.
Used to be like that here in the Oblivion forum when it first opened up. We had a lot of members of the youthful cheerleading squad who were rude above all to anybody who wanted to discuss fixing game bugs and improving game issues, though not neglecting punching, slapping, and biting one another during the rest of the time. Eventually, they moved on to the next Bestest Game Forever, and things settled down to become much like the Morrowind forum, which had never been very bad.
I expect the Skyrim forums to mellow out in a few months, with the appearance of new games, and the CS. But it's going to be a bit like watching a Beavis and Butthead Marathon in there for a while, yet.