No way! That guy sounds like a huge a-hole. Sounds just like my old best friend, and that's not the kind of person that's worth sticking around with. Sorry I'm not of much more help, but my "break-up" with my best friend is about the closest thing to your situation.

EDIT: Maybe I should explain myself, since I don't think that made much sense. The way I see things, whenever there's a breakup or big fight between friends or boyfriends/girlfriends, you have to decide whether or not that person is worth spending your time on. The reason I found your situation familiar is that the reasons that I considered when trying to decide if it was worth working things out with him or not were similar to things that you listed with your ex-boyfriend. Dishonesty, trying to get with an underaged girl, not considering what other people think or feel. Eventually it comes to a point where someone just isn't worth your love, be it platonic or romantic. Hope that makes sense, didn't want to derail the thread too much...

:blink: One. Club? What is this that you speak of?

And why is it that the quiet girls always have the mental horses? I've never quite got my head around that.

Haha, thanks if things get rough I might, but I'll probably be able to cope on my own And unfortunately that's true, cause then people just use you.



Yeah that makes sense. And I kinda feel bad bagging the guy out like this on a forum, I mean, he's a good enough friend, just in terms of boyfriend material, he was pretty...well...just not my type. I have no problems being friends with him, because I can see through the bull now, and also it means the disregarding my beliefs isn't quite as irritating. I guess I'll find out if being friends with him is going to work out when we move into the flat though. Everyone has their faults, and generally he's a nice guy. He's just not used to thinking about other people, and unfortunately I learned that the hard way.



Ha. "This" is Rotorua. Now, I hope no-one stalks me. But seriously, apparently (before the quakes anyway) CHCH pooped all over Rotorua in terms of it's nightlife. I mean, we have more than one here, but they're the sort where...well...only certain types of people go, and it's not fun times.
Haha good question! Y'know, I never really thought about it, but you're actually right. Living vicariously, perhaps? A bit of spark in our dull and quiet lives? I personally find quiet horses boring. Both mine have been utter psychos. My current one's calmed down a bit, now that he's 15. Once you get him somewhere new though, it's all on. I'm gonna stop, I could go on about him for a long time otherwise.

Well I only lend an ear to a specific few friends. Everyone else I just say "ok" or "cool" to while they talk. Lmao.