"the http://elderscrolls.wikia.com/wiki/Volkihar_Clan, paranoid and cruel,
Most people who claim "lore [censored]" forget this little description seem to forget this little, the Volkhiar clan lives isolated on a island far from mainland Skyrim and have little to no contact, besides from gathering thralls(Until Dawnguard of course), also Serana describes her father as " Very paranoid" as he added un-necessary extra security measures to the castle. The "cruelty" part, is how they treat there thralls, as objects and force them to serve as a never ending supply of blood, in constant pain. Yeah they glossed over there ice abilities, but its not as severe as people think.
To dispute the whole "Paranoia" part really quickly.
As an outside observer of Dawnguard, I can't say I know all the specifics of the story, but I do know that regardless of you being a human or a vampire, Serana will spill her guts about who she is (her name, the fact that she's a vampire, the fact that she's the daughter of a very powerful vampire, etc), and ask you to take her back to their top secret lair. Harkon then immediately offers to make you one of the fold, rather than just trying to kill you as an outsider outright in order to preserve their secret.
Neither of these are stellar examples of key members of their clan being paranoid. Personally, I see it as quite the opposite: far too trusting of outsiders, the barrier notwithstanding.
Also, paranoia isn't simply living far away and/or not having contact with others. It's more about being anxious, cautious, or wary of others. I live in a fairly isolated area outside of town and don't go there unless I need something. That's not paranoia, it's wanting peace and quiet and disliking cities, yet it's pretty much the same qualifications you listed to support the paranoia.
Then you have the fact that they aren't located under frozen lakes, but rather in a castle. Not only that, but they aren't even in the same part of Skyrim the book suggests you'd find them (the book says they're in the east, Castle Volkihar is in the west).
Then you have the fact that their powers are radically different from what the book suggests.
So yes, I'd say the deviate quite a bit.