I do read them at times, it helps.

I do not see a Fallout 4 Game Manual anywhere or a link for one on Steam or Bethesda.

Where did I miss it, or is there one?

Someone said there is a "help" option in your menu. You can try that or if that isn't enough, purchase a guide.

We have an open topic http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1547112-where-is-the-instruction-manual/ for this discussion. Feel free to discuss it there.