I haven't used the unofficial FO3 patch much. I heard a lot of people were having issues with it so I don't tend to use it, just to be safe. It seems to be a lot less essential than the Oblivion one.
But what I've started using now is ...
Hmm, interesting. I'm in eight or so more hours with the UOF3 patch and not one crash so far, so I guess I'll leave well enough alone and maybe look into your comment next go around. That being said, I have one small complaint and that complaint is the flashlight (or there lack of). I think I might need to go to nexus and see whats available for a brighter one. Any suggestions ?