At the NCR mission where I have to go check out the situation at the Great Khans. I go talk to everyone, get the "Oh my papa" quest and then go back to the hooverdam. The problem is that the only options I have is: The second in command is showing support to an NCR alliance"--->Leader is not showing any support" followed by her telling me that she does not have time for diplomacy and asks me to kill their leader. I then get two choices, either say yes, and my quest updates and tells me to kill him or I say no and she tells me to stop wasting her time and the quest just stops dead. No update, no nothing, quest is not failed or anything, and talking to her does nothing. Now, if I agree to kill the leader that's the only choice I have, I can't talk to anyone at Khans (Friendly with them) they just repeat what they said before, leader refuses to talk about not joining the legion and now I can't pick that option again.
Things I've done before I started the "Oh my papa" quest:
Talked to everyone in redrock, this was like 10 hours ago (gametime) so I can't just reset to a previous gamesave. The quest "Oh my papa" did not start back then though, I had to have the NCR quest to talk to them for it to activate. Wild card quest did not count.
I have the diary from Caesar.
Things I have not done: I don't have Karls Diary. Should I load a state before I report to the girl at the Hoover Dam, steal Karls Diary, report to her?
I'm lost
Sorry for the bad description, it's hard to write when you're tired and frustrated. Second quest to bug for me, atleast Fallout 3 had zero questbugs for me :/