i dont think you should feel bad, you should be excited for the game, if you're happy about something thats all that matters... bethesda themselves know they cant make everyone happy, they accept that fact, so you certainly shouldnt let it bother you.
look, people are ALWAYS complaining, about EVERYTHING.
example... people were worried hand-to-hand was taken out... it was confirmed to still be in, but since it wasnt a skill, people didnt think it was a viable option anymore... they hear there are non-lethal tavern brawls, they think its just a gimmick and still wont prove useful in battle... then we get confirmation that we CAN kill enemies with our fists and its still a viable combat choice... then they complain that they cant be peaceful fist fighters.
Now wait just a cotton picking minute. There's a difference between killing things in battle, and getting better at killing things in battle. If you can't get better, it's not a valid combat option because at most you'll be able to kill the rabbits. And if there is a way to get better, but it's not related to a skill - then Beth just threw out their slogan "get better at something by doing it" and a whole lot of people should see red flags going up everywhere.
And also, barfighting is a gimmick if hth was watered down so much that it would be available to people. If it wasn't watered down for the reason, what was the reason then? It was a completely valid combat option before, but now it's a joke of its former self.