The situation the bully wants to cause might indeed result in him tumbling down the slope, especially if Kid A hasn't been trained to recover from a screw up. I'm sorry but I fail to see how tripping a kid and potentially getting him hurt by causing him to tumble down a slope is laughable or "just kids being kids"

I actually said getting tripped down a slope and/or getting hurt IS serious.

I have to agree with Antibody here, the kid might even get seriously hurt like breaking his neck. Just one tumble down a slope could seriously affect his life forever. I would never put it under the "kids being kids" title, this is too life threatening for that. To the OP: I say tell the counselor's before it happens. There's no harm in potentially saving a kid's life by "telling the teacher".

Skiing is dangerous enough as it is, if this little [censored] is threatening to cut someone inexperienced off and attempt to make him fall he needs to be stopped. He could get seriously injured.

My solution would be to beat the [censored] out of kid B. But maybe thats just me.

:nod: Didn't you say you already beat him up once? Threaten to do it again.

I cannot tolerate bullies. At all.


I'd help the most vapid, petty, idiotic person if they were being bullied.

I implore you, don't just sit around and let this bastard wreck someone's life. You can do something, so [censored] do it.

Something like this.

It's true school officials svck at knowing what happens in their own school. Solving it yourself will also be much more effective in the long run.

I don't know if such sort of thing exists in your school, but I remember in my school the young ones often sought contact with elder ones, those in the highest two to three grades (age 16-18). The elder ones taught the kids how to stand up for themselves and offered protection for as long as they'd go to that school. By the time you were 15-16 yourself, you'd get to watch over some kids of your own. Like gangs or clans really, people pledging allegiance of some kind and such, but with preventive and constructive intent. You'd form your own family. People who sticked together sometimes lived in the same area and knew each other beforehand. Usually once bullying was intervened, this had a lasting effect.

I hope you'll be the one who acts. There is an abundance of cases where kids actually died because people stood there looking at it for all this time and chose to do nothing!

Kick B's ass!

Just man up to the guy and tell him to leave kid A alone. Not that hard.

This

It's better to avoid a fight (not necessarily confrontation) and tell a teacher or counselor about the situation.

Most schools have a zero tolerance for fighting (whether you started it or had good intentions it doesn't matter both you and the other student will face disciplinary measures if you fight)

Make the bully look like an idiot, I would say don't get violent though because then you'll get in trouble, kids like that will usually tell if they lose in my experience.

It's the way I dealt with them. Bullies gave in once a became fluent in sarcasm.

I hate bullies. I used to be a happy person. But after like decade of it I started to become extremely pessimistic.

Too many Kids #'s involved. Get Man B into the story!

At least tell the accompanying teacher what may happen. If the teacher is already aware of the fact that lil dude gets bullied, they'll keep an eye out. If not, basically teech won't give a [censored], kid kets hurt, then you can say, "when will you ever listen." Schools have a problem with ignoring bullying unless it's happening right under their nose, and even then things rarely get done about it. Bullying makes me angry as I've had rocks thrown at me because I was friends with someone who had black hair, so it really irritates me when kids, no matter how annoying their target it or "young and kiddie" they're being, bully people. There's no excuse, no reason, people get seriously hurt and they can suffer psychologically. Whatever you do, at least try tell people. Maybe inform lil dude's parents, they might choose to accompany him or perhaps withdraw him, if he's 13 or younger I don't see why it would be a problem to do that.

To do what is right, regardless of consequences is true bravery. Never compromise.

That's what I live by atleast.

You should tell a teacher/councilor. Surely you could do it discretely, so that you wouldn't be labelled as a grass (or whatever they call it where you live) or anything?

Dont tell the teachers, belive me, they cant do a [censored] thing, the school svcks when it comes to dealing with bullying. If you tell them nothing will change, if you beat up the bully you will get in trouble (weird how that works).
Honestly no idea, I was bullied, teachers did [censored] all (granted it was primary school) then in secondary school I was bullied, the teachers failed so I ignored it, because people say ignoring them and they get bored, now I realise thats BS, I regret not using violence, I think it would have solved my problems 9did for other people who used violence), there and then, because the other options just dont [censored] work.

Sure, they most likely wont do anything until it's too late, but there's no harm in telling them. Unless the bully finds out of course, but the school administration would have to svck even more than most do for that to happen.

If they at least keep an eye on them when they're skiing, it would be worth it imo.

1) Inform teachers/councelors of the bullying. Document each time you do this.

2) When the [censored] hits the fan, ensure everyone knows.

3) Enjoy watching them get canned.

You'd think after Columbine teachers/administrators would at least have an interest in covering their asses, but people continue to surprise me.

Beating someone is never the answer to any problem. It just tends to create more violence and stupid vengeance. The best thing to do (the hardest and the bravest) is to try and integrate all of you as a group and be friends. You′ll have great memories as you get older trust me.

Nothing happens, because it never gets that bad. Just results in people either moving schools, or snapping ande beating the [censored] out of someone, or just ignoring it till they leave.

Prevention better than cure, instead of waiting for the [censored] to hit the fan, the kid should just beat the guy up, there now it isnt going to end as badly.


I tried that too. Being friends. It resulted in me either being a doormat everyone walked on, or everyone saying "oh take a joke" and as hard as you try some people will always hate you. For no reason.
I would say beating up people solves the problem, if a guy punches you and then gets the crap beat out of him, he wont do it again, and it serves as an example.
I tried the non violent routes, none work.

Don't try beating up the bullies if there's too many of them, or if you're not skilled in hand-to-hand combat. If you try and fail, you'll make it worse than ever. Trust me, the only way to get yourself out of being bullied is to hire Owen Wilson as a bodyguard..

Yeah teachers won't do [censored]. I know from experience. If you want something done, you gotta do it yourself.

And to not wear the same shirt on the first day of school

Anyways I forgot to mention earlier, as someone who has been bullied a bit and done some bullying (not proud of it) it can really mess people up. I'm lucky that I wasn't bullied that badly so I could just brush it off, but I've seen some kids who have never fully recovered. It completely ruins your self-esteem, confidence and your sense of self. If you can do something sooner rather then later that would be best. That kid seems like he's got enough problems without being bullied mercilessly.