I think Saikyo is the best actually.

Lame joke I know.


OP, you should definitely say something to a teacher/counselor. If you don't want to do that, say something to kid B. You've already beat him up, so you have nothing to fear from him.

Honestly, my parents weren't very good at the "teach me to get along with other kids" part. At first, I was a more or less arrogant and over-depended little [censored]. As I got older, I became just shy.

It didn't get any better for me. It turns out you HAVE to socialize to not get picked on. Even if you don't like talking to people and are nice to everyone.

Eh, I just realiserd that most people are stupid and aren't worth talking to. The 7 of 9 demeanor tends to put people off anyway.

Perhaps if you stuck up for Kid A, he would stop annoying you. That being said, I'm not one to talk. I've often ignored and sometimes watched when someone I hate is being picked on. Then again, they always went farther to annoy me than just a nasally voice.

Thing is, some kids can and do learn, to say stop it. The kid that should have been expelled blew his last chance, a chance he was given because he was on medication (sterioids) for a breathing problem. The school tried their best to accomodate him, and the other kids, resulting in his isolation as a punishment. Which didn't help him socialize at all.
I've roleplayed with kids, where they are the bully, and I am them, and we work on looking people directly in the eye, calming ourseves down, and expressing our disinclination to accomodate his actions. I teach them to hold their head up, speak loudly and firmly. Bullies pick victims by attitude. They know, like wolves circling caribou, which is easy prey. Smaller, might get picked on, but with an intolerant attitude, won't stay picked on.


As for me, I grew up with three brothers, was taught to box by my dad, and only had to resort to violence thrice in my entire school experience. I was quiet, dainty, preferred solitude, but had many friends. Those three who chose to start [censored] with me learned that I finish [censored]. They got their asses beat. All boys.
Bullies learn best when the lesson is what they do.



As for my kids, they do not have permission to start it. But they damn sure better finish it.
Son has always been slim and short, got picked on a couple of time in kindergarten. He knew how to defend himself, the kid bullied him. He did the correct thing, told the teacher, kid was reprimanded, still picked on him.
Then the son had enough, knocked the bully down next time he picked on him, bloodied his nose, and that was that. KIds dad came in, demanded to see who'd hurt his son, and was pretty ticked off AT HIS OWN SON when he saw the size of mine. That kid got in so much trouble for picking on a kid three times smaller than him.
Eventually, the son and he became friends, they both took speech class.
Son got in a couple of fights in fourth, and eight grade, bullies again. Beat the bully up, both times, kid left him alone.
Prinicpal came up, informed me the son had detention for fighting. I asked if he'd started it, no he didn't.
I asked if he finished it, yes he had.
I backed up detention, they were after all, fighting. But sometimes, you hve to put your ass out on the line to stand up for what is right.
If people aren't willing to do that, don't whine to me.

I agree with Mamagato. In a perfect world there would be an all seeing eye that could dispense justice for the bullied, but in reality you need to fend for yourself. If you can't defend yourself, it's your fault.

Well that's a pretty crappy perspective.

Or, you know, you could look out for those less fortunate, and help them instead of just standing around watching them get picked on and/or hurt. Sometimes a person just needs someone else to make them feel good about themself to gain some courage, and sticking up for them could be a turning point. While watching them get picked on/beat down just makes you seem like a jerk. We are not cookie cutter people, we are all different with difffering circumstances and sometimes, it's just nice to help the less fortunate/weaker. :shrug:

Just call Super-Man! He can do anything


But really, if you beat up this kid once. Why not do it again? I would also try to do it in front of some desirable ladies as well :hubbahubba:

I didn't think I'd have to post this in Community Discussion. Most of everyone involved in this thread has been here a while. Oh well.

Please read the forum rules.

Similarly, posts admitting to drug use, violence, or other illegal activities are not tolerated within the forums. This includes indicating knowledge of or being witness to unreported illegal activities. Such knowledge should be reported to the authorities not posted on a forum.

Now I'm fairly sure assault or assault and battery is illegal. Advising someone to break the law isn't a good idea. Since the bully's plan to interfere with an inexperienced skier on a black diamond run is potentially life threatening, report him to the counselors or teacher.

This can close before the less than helpful posts earn someone a warning.