The issue is rather simple, if your running a server you need to set the variables in the dedicated.txt file to state the wait times for lobby. if you do not state the wait times and leave the dedicated.txt blank your server will not, and i repeat, will not move forward. This is why so many servers sit in the lobby and 50 of you asshats just sit in there too.
If you want to join a server as an example, BHSlaughter.com works flawlessly without any problems. Why? Cause i run the server and setup the configs to work. Come try us out, Sanjose based with NFO hosting ( aka best pings you will find )
If your a server owner and need help doing this, message me and Ill walk you through the process.