I prefer genders to be flat out equal in all aspects. I wouldn't mind traits like the Ladykiller/Black Widow or non gender specific +/- to stats or skills. Given that i always like playing female characters i don't want to be penalized for my choice. I forgot TES even had stat differences between genders and i think that's already more than enough.
Besides there isn't a major difference in physical abilities with genders. Yesterday i saw the neighbour kids playing, the girl who is smaller i might add kicked her brothers butt and sent him off crying.
Penalized? Are you serious?
Every single race has a counterbalance in its sixual dimorphisms in the attributes in the previous games. Females of any given race tend to have some physical trait that's lesser than the male's stat, in exchange for one more mental. In Oblivion, Nord males have a whopping 50 strength and endurance, at the cost of starting at 30 in personality, intelligence, and willpower. Nord females still have the 50 strength (the only females of any race that do), but takes a hit to 40 in Endurance (still higher than many other female dimorphisms of races), but a boost to 40 in Willpower. Load up the other starting skills and birthsign right, and a female nord has a bit of an edge in starting up a magic/melee build.
This is hardly "penalized".
These initial differences did nothing to prevent you from putting a heapin' helpin' of attribte points into any given stat at each levelup.
six is a factor in one's mental and physical predispositions in real life. Not the only one, but it is one. There are
two entire chromosomes devoted to six in any given human.