i would really like if for example if im an "Evil" Warlord and i walk into the local tavern most people in there should go quiet and oogle at me nervously

yes

Personally, I don't think any computer game will be able to provide anything but "roll" playing. Without other live people to play off of (at least a GM), the system is too limited - you can't define your "role" in-game that strongly, the game mechanics/physics model/NPC interactions - they're all limited by the systems that are programmed in.

(Of course, by that measure, I don't really think that the things the OP listed make it "roleplaying" any more than the stuff we already have. :shrug:)



disclaimer - even in pen-and-paper RPGs, I'm more of a "roll" player than a "role" player - I'm not good enough at improvisational theatre. Or plotting stories/writing/character development.

No doubt. The computer is a poor excuse for a living, breathing GM. A good GM can see what the players want "in game", and react accordingly. Once a game comes out, it's written in stone. Far more rigid and restrictive.