Are you implying that I couldn't handle soldier life or what? If that's the case I'm going to inform you that I have had a very successful year in military service. And in my experience commanders were exactly the people that filtered their speech. I have not served in wartime, but at least in the army I served in great weigh was put on maintaining a professional and neutral image even when facing the enemy. Not behave like a bunch of vindictive peasants.
Other than that, all that I'm saying is that Stormcloak officers are ignorant and unprofessional, and your admittance of their disregard for soldierly conduct confirms that to me.
The Imperial Legion is highly professional. I don't think you know what professional means. It has no relation to competence, it's about conduct. And conduct shows moral integrity, which is something I can respect in even a defeated military.
And of course, what I always found suspicious is that we never see Stormcloaks taking prisoners. "Take no prisoners" sounds romantic in a movie but in reality massacring PoWs is a war crime of the worst sort. The Empire clearly takes prisoners on a regular basis and we see countless SC prisoners being escorted around Skyrim, but when's the last time you heard Stormcloaks taking prisoners? Doesn't sound very professional to me.