Being a forum member for a long time doesn't equal everyone trusting you in Minecraft.
Now I'm not saying that you are untrustworthy, I am simply trying to make a point about how most of the new members we are getting lately have been invited by new members themselves.
Ya I know what you're saying, don't worry I'm not gonna take offense to it
If you don't consider me trustworthy yet that's fine, I've only been in the server for um, I don't remember... a week or two.
I might suggest to my friend he show off some of his single player stuff and be more active to fill that requirement as well.