I released a simple mod to fix the race detection problems with vampires. It seems Bethesda forgot to add in checks for if the player is a vampire variant of their race (the game checks for nordrace for "hail kinsman", but doesn't check for nordracevampire). As I said before, this is a simple mod purely aimed at a small niche audience but I'm hoping people will enjoy using it.
It should work for most NPCs, but there may be a few which still need changing. If there are, please feel free to let me know and I'll get on it asap!
Mod: http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/42034/?
I hope you enjoy!