That's the problem - not only for roleplaying (at least not like you understand it), but for a self-insert, too because I don't ever want to get married myself (I am a child of divorced parents and did a stint as an intern at a family lawyer (lots of divorce cases!), so I know how bad those can get and don't want to risk that....how did Bill Burr say it: "If you were going skydiving and they told you 2/3 parachutes weren't gonna open? - Yo, forgett it, I am not going!") or have a child -.- (so forced (or mandatory!) fatherhood/motherhood for my character just irks me -.-)
The next problem is - if they don't just forgett about that backstory later on (after you awaken in the post-war era) - that they probably expect you to go looking for your wife and child (people I don't feel all that connected to, as they've been "forced" on me....), which is entirely to close to the story of Fallout 3 or hell, Fallout 2 (it's implied that the people of vault 111 (your vault) didn't leave because they wanted to, but that they were taken by force, just like the inhabitants of the village (Aroyo...spelling?) in Fallout 2)....I mean yes, the father in Fallout 3 left voluntarily (and that made me want to punch the man when I found him...sadly I didn't get that option!), but it's still the same because you are again looking for your family (and call me a [censored], but my own family (at least one half - my mother!) wasn't that ideal, so I don't think that highly of family -.-)...I'd have loved something different (though I like that we are still from a Vault (hell, even better: We were alive before the bombs fell!) - as I'd hate to be some uneducated tribal (didn't like it in Fallout 2 - that's why I maxed intelligence in order to not be taken for one, ever!))
Still, being a vet is cool (I still hope that the girl is one, too as I do plan to replay as a woman)
greetings LAX
ps: I've got one other problem: Being a vet implies that we are at least 25 (if not older) which clashes with me wanting to play someone who's either in his late teens or barely out of them