to be honest I probably would say that he's wrong, what is the point of playing yourself in a video game? I don't know about you, but I play as myself all the time, it's called life. When I play a video game I do so to become someone else. Furthermore, if you constantly play as yourself that completely eliminates the possibility of replaying a game in any meaningful fashion, since all your choices will be the same anyway.
Again i ask who the heck are you to tell these two people how to play a game? The purpose of the TES series is not in point of fact for you or anyone to roleplay this way or that way. The point of the games is to provide enjoyable entertainment. If some guy ONLY plays X and I know multiple people who ONLY play high elves because thats what they like, who are you to tell them they are wrong? people play games in many differnt ways i find it rather rude you are not only telling us you are against a given feature (a perfectly reasonable thing to do) but now you are dictating how we should play the game? (A perfectly UNreasonable thing to do.)
It is way out of order to try and dictate how people should play. i love to RP its why i play RPGs multiple times because I get enjoyment out of playing differnt roles. But i hate MMO role players because so often then not then start going around telling other people how they should play the game.
Why can't people just let otehr people play games in teh manner they find enjoyable? Its not like they are ruining your oblivion game by playing either themselves or in the manner Bono does where he has a character and no matter how many or how few options he has to customise his character its till his character?