as the tag says, I do not want any spoilers but just general answers to a question.
Should I wait until after I become Dragonborn (And get pale hold house) OR get a different house and then head to Solstheim to get Morwen to marry my Nord (Skaal) warrior.
The reason behind this debate is that My Nord warrior, Jervar Greycloak, was born and raised a Skaal. His sister, Hjotra Greycloak left Solstheim and just disappeared. He left his home and Morwen to find his sister, only returning to skyrim when he felt the All-Maker call him home.