as the tag says, I do not want any spoilers but just general answers to a question.

Should I wait until after I become Dragonborn (And get pale hold house) OR get a different house and then head to Solstheim to get Morwen to marry my Nord (Skaal) warrior.

The reason behind this debate is that My Nord warrior, Jervar Greycloak, was born and raised a Skaal. His sister, Hjotra Greycloak left Solstheim and just disappeared. He left his home and Morwen to find his sister, only returning to skyrim when he felt the All-Maker call him home.

hey sweetie don't wait to go to the island, it's pretty cool and you don't have to be the Drangonborn the first time you visit. If you love role playing then why not marry the love of your life and bring your bride to the island kinda like having a honeymoon.....

Well, Morwen is the love of his life so...

sorry I missed that but yes go anyways to get her and marry her and build her a great house and then return to the islands to enjoy it together as a married couple..