This is my worrys you get married and the wife moves in. you come home after your usual ransacking and pillaging and leave your treasure in the house layin around. since npc's are now known especially to pick up stuff you drop what if the wife starts stealing all of your stuff?
There's an official relationship thread. Feel free to join the discussion here http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1227301-skyrim-relationships-friendship-romance-marriage/page__st__140
one question...if you can get a divorce,will it be the old fashioned "warhammer to the head" or a long process of divorce papers? P.S. the person you marry should do things like bring you a lockpick in jail