I can answer the first question.
Yes you can increase illusion spell duration. For best results, use alchemy, enchanting and of course perks. Alchemy and enchanting work together well.
EDIT: You can increase any spell duration using enchantments, and I think you can do the same with alchemy.
isn't there an effect like an enchantment or something? even if you can only get it through console. also, what about the ward problem?