When they expect the guy to do all the work! The flirting, the interaction, the asking out, the proposal, decision making for dates. OMFG Why cant I find somone who takes the initiative for once??? Driving me insane!!

Can you explain to me the nature of your avatar?


If it makes you feel any better, I've been the one to take the initiative of 5 of the 7 relationships I've had in my years. Which is pretty uncommon.

But you know us women! We just have to be coy and make you beg for us!

the high schooling texters

the Justin Bieber/Twilight popularity

making up a lower percentage of gamers

the obsession with clown make-up (Honestly, make-up is overused, in my opinion.)

...And then when we don't get the hint, you blame us for not doing anything. :banghead:

Wanna' know what I hate so much about the opposite six? The fact that its members are willing to be any combination of weaklings, jerkoffs, idiots, morons, backstabbers, and manipulators all in the quest to [censored] and get whatever else it wants. And gets frustrated when it fails.

I hate my own six for those exact same reasons.

Hey well, I'm not a practicioner of it myself, but I definitely see why that's annoying.


You must attend the worst school known to man. Okay no, I really actually know all too well that basically every school has those types in abundance.

I'd recommend going after an older demographic. High school girls are the worst.

And just because I have to say:
I do not text like a maniac.
I do not enjoy Bieber/Twilight
I game
I wear very light make-up, mostly because I have a lot of (what's considered nowadays) hippie ideals and believe in natural beauty. Makeup should enhance, not change.

Then again I'm not a teenager, but some disclaimers are necessary.

And the six. Oh boy, was my last GF pretty much just laid there doing nothing, even if she wanted it.

You don't know if it was a legitimate study yet you are saying that it wasn't valid? Women have been proven to do some things better than men, and vice versa. It sounds like she was just joking too. I agree some people take feminism to far. But for every opinion there are people who take it to far, idealogical beliefs are not exclusive to feminism.

I'm sorry if that seemed inaccurately generalized. I was only aiming for the worst I see in my everyday life. I have very different ideas about what older women are like. I find similar problems to be true of many high school guys, including the texting part. Then there are the obsession with game types I don't care about, the obsession with sports, the obsession with rap and being "gangsta", etc. In general, I'm looking forward to some future years when I hope I'm among largely different types of people of both genders. It's just that I'm not interested in guys, so what they do isn't my concern.

Lmao that reminds me of back when I was at school "clown cheeks" was all the rage - it was just like it sounds - big blobs of red blusher. They may have been cool at the time, but I bet the rest of us look better in retrospect; I hate to imagine what their school pictures look like now! Just goes to show, fashion ain't forever. I will never be able to thank my Mum enough for not letting me buy makeup like that!

It's beyond irritating to see that all the time, I know. Just know that it only shows you're the more mature individual.

Nah. I just picked up on some of my mom's personality traits. Although gaming is something unique to me, in my family, it seems. The problem is my mom is still single (well, divorced). I don't want that trait.

Inheritance or not, I'm pretty sure not going on about the superficial things everyone else goes on about makes you more mature.

Wait until you go to college, there's much more intelligent people there, better grounded in reality. Of course there are more crazies there too, but you can work around them.

Perhaps other people may just not be expressing what they're thinking. My question is am I really right on this topic or am I seeming like a boasting elitist? That's always been a question in the back of my mind. I'd like to think other people are more similar to myself than I know, but I don't know how to go about actually finding that out.

I get that, bottling up your emotions isn't healthy. But instead of crying or throwing a fit, I accept the fact that I can't change the past, dwelling on it is pointless. If I'm sad, I do things that will make me happy, if I'm angry I do calm things to make it go away...or punch something, that works too.

I agree - plus you'll hone your "weeding skills" by then, doesn't matter what gender you are. I think the dating scene gets easier with age, don't fret.

If you ever watch legend of the seeker TVShow there is an episode in which Caelorn gets divided into 2 of herself. 1 is extremely emotional and the other is an ice queen. Thats what bugs me, women that go from extreme to the other, the radical hormone changes and WTF moments that come out of nowhere.

The drama. (talking about woman, of course.)
and mood swings (which lead to drama)

I could say alot but I'll keep it civil, this dosen't apply to all women but there's a good amount of faults I've seen and experiance over the years that's left a bad image on me.
1: Stuck up or very picky women.
2: Disloyalty seems to be high nowadays.
3: Greedy.
4: Dishonesty (another high one nowadays).
5: No where to meet decent women.
a: Churches-A lot of snooty women here, not good place to start.
b: Bars-Usally find one nighters here, another non decent place to find one.
c: Work: This one's an odd one, usally most places have a no dateing colluiges rule so----.
6: No or lack of compromising: Some women expect a man to sacrafice alot for them, but when it comes to the other way around it either leads to a nasty argument which could lead to her to making a compromise or ends up ending the relationship all together.
7: Kids-Not all guys want to have kids and I'm one of those guys. Having kids nowadays is a pricy ordeal and sometimes could lead to break-ups and guys like me usally end up dating a woman with kids already. Sorry but I'm not taking care of another guy's kids and besides what if the realtion goes sour, those kids are going to end up heartbroken and fatherless again. For reason like these I CHOOSE NOT to date a woman with kids---PERIOD. <_<

Boobs, considering I'm gay.

Oh, and also how much girls whine. :facepalm:

well, with regards to the one's of had actual conversations with... their dishonesty (aka: lies)

the fact that they actually prefer it when you lie to them

truth just gets you into trouble

I hate the fact that I only seem to attract the bottom feeders of men. I'm sure there are great guys out there, but unfortunately I haven't seen or met any, and have given up hope of ever meeting one. I am fine and quite happy and content by myself and myself, I'm a Gemini, so at least I have a twin to talk to.

Gonna reiterate a few things from other people.

That girls can't take the initiative and ask a man she likes if he wants to go out onna date. Or really just anything having to do with "guys have to do it first" thing. We're in an age of breaking gender roles, and that shoulda been the first one broken!

Why?

Because we men have fragile egos, and are but little children when it comes to the imposing women.