Yeah, All other factors being good I'd be happy to have a relationship with someone with a kid in 5 or ten years (I don't stand much of a chance of maintaing a family at the moment!).

When you hear people say they hate children, or could never have them themselves, it just sounds pretty immature to me. I grew up in a big family, so while young children are a hassle sometimes, they're not something you hate, they're just there.

Strange, because a friend of mine always blames her [censored]iness on her period.

Maybe she's just using it as an excuse?


Maybe it's because I spent two years studying biology,but it pisses me off when someone says "It's just hormones". Well no [censored], emotion is triggered largely by hormones and nerves in both sixes, what the hell else would it be?

yeah maybe I'm just weak but I really don't see how it's preventable sometimes. I actually kind of like crying though :shrug:



this... seriously

Babies are parasites before birth, and just annoying creatures after. *flameshield*
They smell, they are ugly, noisy, thhey have no redeeming qualities at all.


Maybe its alot to di with the media, always showing fake people with beuty that cant be achived naturally.
Make up, surgery and magazines use photoshop, you cant really ccompete, and then people probablly belive alot is natural, then set themselves to a unrealistic standard, thuus consider themselves ugly.

Except for like, continuing the human race?


Maybe babies aren't great, but when I think of the idea of having children, I think of what they could be when they grow up, I look forward to settling down with a good woman and raising a family.

The human race will kill itself evantually so I could care less about that, it wont effect me if the human race died out in say 100 years, I would be dead anyway, I dont care about it.

Yeah theycould grow up, be a drug dealer, killer, rapist, all the bad things, just like all the good things, and after they are babies they wil lbe annooying toddlers, then annoying kids, then teenages, annoying in their own way.
Too much hassle.

I'm just going to look over there now.

I'll freely admit that it's probably an irrational hatred, but I hate them. Perhaps alongside asixuality I'm also missing whatever biological/instinctive factors urge people to adore and value them, but I can't even be in the same room as a baby. They're completely intolerable to me.

I hate when you go to a supermarket and someone has a baby/child who wont shut the hell up, and they refuse to do anything about it, so they walk around the shop for ages just making everyone put up with the noise.

Women are more emotional. Women remember things with emotion, unlike men. The only time you see men remembering things with its full original emotion, is with veterans telling their war stories. They cry, they laugh, a bitter-sweet memory because those memories were intense. Women don't need intense to remember emotions.

Reason over emotion / emotion over reason = none of it works. Emotion and reason has to walk hand in hand. You can never take the right decision if you ignore one or the other, both have to be in agreement. What if you only find a solution that promotes one approache over the other? You have the wrong solution, search again.

I agree that men are disoriented by emotional women, mostly because girls use it against you. Those girls emotionaly manipulate others, I don't approve, I don't do this. I don't fall for this. Take me for instance (hehe), when I get angry, I mean really angry, my eyes fill with tears of rage. Yes, I cry, not because I planned it so, not to manipulate, it's the physical manifestation of a strong emotion... and I am not that emotional. A man might start yelling or punching walls instead... but the emotion is the same.


The period episode is not about pain, mostly, it's more about a sudden drop of happy hormones that makes us feel like poop. Two weeks later, we feel like queens or a femme fatale... I never trust any beauty products that garantees results in two weeks just for that.

I agree that most girls use this to just ignore their civil responsibilities. So what, I get irritated those days, I don't go berserk on my friends for that, I know where it comes from and I control it.


I see myself as a feminist, but most self-proclamed feminist are plain sixist, like you say. The ideology has been spoiled. I'm not for equality, I'm for equivalence.


Their (men) obsession on spending hundred if not thousands of dollars on electronic gadgets they use once and then forget.


Technically, an orgism relieves headaches, because of the blood flow, so tell that to her next time. If she don't want to, she should just say so.


Damn right! Hormones spices life, but please don't get ruled by them! It's no excuse for somebody to be a a-hole. Be civilised and responsible!

More on topic: I personnaly make a huge difference between girls/boys vs women/men. Things that bother me mostly are the immature things, and those tend to melt as people mature.
What I don't like about men: One on one, men listen to women. If a woman is alone with many men, they tend to ignore her, not on purpose, they just do. She has to speak up much more than if only with women.
When men don't give credit if something good came out of a brainstorming session of any kind, they take a good idea and use it as their own. Apparently, not on purpose again. I have to mention it's my idea and then they acknowledge it, without problem whatsoever. Weird.

holy crap what have i made

I don't hate men, I hate the attitudes that many uneducated ones have.





No, my men had to be clean. I prefer to lick different areas.
One can generally tell how good a man's hygiene is by his hands, if his nails have dirt underneath, are torn, ragged, or the back of his neck smells sweaty when I go to hug him, ....it's not going to happen.

I hate how they play http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8hqJgfJE1s&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4xtUYWCmveE&feature=related

The only good thing they've ever done is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LgzbKe6_DN4&feature=related

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I used to be like this.. Then I had a nephew and fell in love with them.

Definitely don't want my own though. :nope: partly because I don't want to raise another [censored] up with bad genes, and because my love for them dies after about an hour

By the definition of reason that is completely invalid. A solution that is entirely reasonable is the right one.

Women do the exact same things.

What I meant is that your heart AND your head have to agree. To be just rational (maybe that's the word I had to use, not my mother tongue!) is as bad as just being emotional.

Yeah, I guess. Isn't it irritating!

They breath.

Girls are alright, living with one is like living with an alien though. :blink:

Yeah, I've got a niece. You can have her.

Many things are "just there." Like the pimples on our faces. The colds that we catch. The mosquito buzzing in our ears. The snow that piles up on our cars. They still [censored] piss people off.

I can't stand kids either, and fail to understand why -- other than chemicals -- women seem so positive about the idea of creating them.

I have a young nephew now and admittedly he's a fun little guy, but the thought of having one of my own 24/7... urgh. I'm too selfish to ever reproduce.

I know, eh? Looked at this a few hours ago, and now it's, what? 2 posts from being locked? damn....

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My contribution: Many of the things already said. But not all of them. I'm kinda too aware of the faults of men to go start picking on women, so I'll just leave it at that.

What I mean is, they are an important part of family life for me, I just couldn't comtemplate being with a woman for a long time without planning to have children at some point.