As far as your first two sentences in that post go, I don't even know what you're talking about, at all. I mean, I literally don't even know how to respond to that, because it's not a response to anything I said, it doesn't make sense. It came before, it's relevant? Filling shoes? What? Stop speaking in prophetic context and spit it out.
And people berate Oblivion because it needs to be done. You think I'm alone in this battle against Oblivion haha? Hardly. A lot of people think the way I do, and a lot of people realize that Oblivion isn't the game it's cracked up to be.
And yes, 8 year old. My 8 year old cousin plays Oblivion and he's damned good at it. What's that tell you?
What he's saying is that prior to Oblivion's release, literally the exact kind of comments you're making about Oblivion compared to Morrowind were made about Morrowind compared to Daggerfall. Because it's true that Oblivion is less complex than Morrowind, and it's true that Morrowind is less complex than Daggerfall, but neither game is terrible, they're just more accessible than earlier entries. Neither game deserves even a third of the crap it gets.
There are easy workarounds for the quest arrow and compass (set the active quest to Nirnroot hunting for best results), and as for fast travel, it's easy to self-impose restrictions on it (only fast travel from town to town, only fast travel when you're on your horse, only fast travel to places you've already visited, etc.). So the handholding is something you consciously allow to take place.
I'm a mature, intelligent gamer now, and I enjoy Morrowind and Oblivion. What does that tell you?