Personally, I'd love to have a girlfriend right now. I understand it's not a huge deal to some people, and it's just kinda something that's there, but for me, I would take a nice trip with a girl who loves me (or likes me a lot) even over Skyrim. It's one of the few things I would take over Skyrim though.
I know what you mean. My last one was a [censored] and cheated. I'm over women atm.
But yeah, you're not missing out on much, just spend a nice time with your girlfriend and then come home and play Skyrim. Not that big of a deal.