one thing i require is someone who is comfortable in silence,
some of the people i know have to talk all the time,
those are the people i am not compatible with,
if there's nothin to say just shut the [censored] up.

I know how that is. But I assure you, one day you will stop giving a crap and will become more vocal. I used to be the shyest person I knew.

Internet obnoxious-ity is very easy! And can get you a lot of the wrong attention. Just recently had a bad situation with a man who got "too close" via the internet with his open fantasizing to me.

And remember - your life after school gives you the chance to start anew. Just be however makes you happy, even if your shyness doesn't fade. It takes all types to make up the world, so there are many opportunities in your life to find someone perfect for you.

Oh, me too. Now I worry that I talk too much, and annoy people.

I can attest to this. I have a beautiful girlfriend. But friends have expressed I have dated hotter girls in the past (as a way of saying, I could do better) But this girl just fits. We get along, we hardly argue, we laugh together and are both generally optimistic thinkers.
We have been dating for 6 years now. At times early on, I almost listened to friends and broke things off as my friends would attempt to introduce me to other girls. But I am content and once you feel that way, it's like all the hottest women in the world just seem like props.
I like the nurturing nature of a woman. The fact they are good listeners. I like women because they make a house feel like a home and somehow they make everything smell better.

I dig other racial girls (asian, hispanic, african...and so on) But of course I like ones of my race too. Though I prefer them to have a good heart and of course, share my faith.

Haha, don't worry about it, I used to get panic attacks just from getting on the bus, and I'd always rather be the one who talks too much than the one who acts like a mute - people will always be more interested in those with opinions than those who say nothing in a conversation. Embrace your gobbiness!

Conan said to hear the lamentations of the women

Q to Comedian: What is better than 1 woman
Comedian: 2 Woman
Q to Comedian: What is better than 2 woman
Comedian: 5 woman
Q to Comedian: What is better than 5 woman
Comedian: 10 WOMAN


Speaking seriously it will vary from guy to guy, man to man, dude to dude, etc., etc... . To me right now I want a job, good health, and to live 150 years+ so i can see the future along with what becomes of humanity. Personally my true wish is to live forever so I can see what goes on throughout time seeing how things progress. No matter how many times humanity disappoints me with some stupid crap I am inspired what it does for its own at times like people helping out the survivors in Japan atm.

A sandwich.

I like athletic woman, skinny, but muscle skinny, not skin and bones anorexic that I have alot in common with, otherwise your going to have to force yourself to do stuff the other likes, then you or her are not enjoying themselves and are not being yourselves.

I'm more attracted to brunettes

I dislike:
Control freaks.
Being overly nosey.
Over-sensitive/emotional.
Over-suspicious.

Really?


Since I don't know what race I am and I don't have a particular faith, I'm not picky on such things. I wish the feeling was always mutual, though.

It's always interesting to check off a box for race on tests.

"Well, I'm light-skinned, but technically Asian (as in of descent from the continent of Asia), yet I don't look like any stereotypical people from any part of Asia. What to choose, what to choose... Why is this relevant, again?"

Beer, wings and chicks, wait a minuet I just listed the three main things served at my favorite wing's restaurant Hooters . Meh---oh well I stand by it .

Oh yeah, forgot to add that I do not like stick figures. They always look so unhealthy. If it's natural, then it can't be helped, other than more food. But forcing oneself to be twig thing just...I don't like it.

Other than the census forms and possibly sociological surveys, I never understood why schools and job applications have "what race are you" on it.

*casts resist flame 100 for 1thread*

I like the traditional female. Meaning I truly love the housekeeper and nurturing type of female. I desire, warmth, kindness, and someone to generally take care of me as Im a bit messy and a bit of a wild child. Really for me I just want a nurturing and loving woman, and I have one. See picture. She also occasionally appears on the forum her handle is CosetteDuCoer

I like long walks on the beach, romantic dinners by candle-light, and listening to women talk about their day.



No.



I like boobies.

I want fulfillment. Is that too much to ask?

To be completely honest... this may sound sarcastic but I love it when a girl can take a women joke. Like seriously there are jokes about every demographic and if a girl thinks that one little women joke is the end of the world I lose my mind.

A gorgeous women who unquestioningly does whatever I say, at all times, and is a fantastic cook.

Ohhhh, I thought this was a for real thread. Now I see that it's a fantasy thread.

I'm female so I'll say what I want, for real, in a man.

Nice looking, caring, honest, trustworthy, likes to communicate, doesn't sit on the couch in underwear scratching and sniffing with one hand while surfing 900 channels with the remote in the other. And doesn't mind having six in my bed, then getting booted to the guest bedroom afterwards. I like to sleep without being bothered with snores, farts, scratching, burping, yawning, grinding teeth etc.

Oops! Looks like I fell right in with the whole fantasy thing.

I know others have taken this topic in jest, and that's all well and good, but I shall not. I think you're asking genuinely, so I shall attempt the same with my response. Here's my tops in a few 'categories'.

Physical:
-Some will deny it, but the first seed of attraction is almost always physical. The traits that make a woman stand out to me vary depending on the person, but despite the fact that I'm a self-admitted boob man (therefore always consider that a bonus), the prime attractors are facial: eyes, nose, hair or chin, roughly in that order. The eyes in particular can speak volumes about someone's personality before they even open their mouth.

Mental:
-Must be intelligent. Not necessarily super-intelligent, but a woman with whom conversations will have meaning, where debate is fruitful. And I'll probably be in the minority here, but I actually prefer someone smarter than me... Because then the debate is a real challenge.

Emotional:
-Humble: Two of my biggest turn-offs in a woman (or person in general) are overt materialism and overt egos. I prefer a woman who is down to earth, and who thinks and acts kindly upon others - this often has as a bonus that they are more capable and willing to bolster my spirits when I'm in need.

Unconsciously? A woman who can pop out 7 kids, cook us dinner from the mammoth we slew, and be up for an all-night six romp...Sans the condem.

Physically, what guys want is all so different. I've given up on trying to define a "type" that I go for because it varies so much. As far as personality goes, I think guys are just as confused as girls are. I know for myself and almost anyone else being too clingy is a huge turnoff, but so is pretending to be really distanced and like you don't care. If I had to define what I would look for long term I would say on the shorter and smaller side, with dark hair and a bit of a tan, and as lame as this sounds a cute, genuine looking face. Just that look like she's a good, gentle person.

Personality wise, I would say smart enough to have good discussions with, in other words around the same intellect level as me, and just a nice person (who doesn't talk way too much lol)

Affirmative action.

I think six, whether subconscious or conscious, is what men want.

But that's the best part... :biggrin: .

A lot of people find it weird not to sleep in the same bed, but it just makes so much more sense, damn blanket hogs!



Anyway, what do I want as a man? Someone who isn't incredibly passive aggressive, or overly dramatic.
I was going out with this girl that I was getting really sick of, and we were with some of my (and kind of her) friends, and while every one is sitting there talking about what movie to see, she interrupts with "Oh my god guys, I just got a text from Rebecca and like two weeks ago I told her that she shouldn't go out with this guy, and now they are and do you think shes trying to get back at me?" *shows text - "Hey, just out with steve, catch you tonight, haha"*.
Everyone just stopped and stared like "Wut?"

- Romance/companionship
Without the six, marriage, kids, or social going-to-the-movies crap.

- Beauty, fitness & health
An appearance thing (slim and toned is nice), but also a lifestyle thing. http://images.wikia.com/riddike/images/2/23/Kyra.jpg is just about perfect in my eyes.

- A little tomboyish.
Someone who can come out exploring, climbing trees and swimming in rivers with me.

Yeah, I know. Keep on dreamin' right.

What I would like from a girl?

six
Be able to sit with her and watch a movie or just relax, maybe talk if I'm in the mood.
Maybe make me dinner or something, maybe I make dinner for her if I learn to cook well.
Someone I can easily talk to about things or feel like I'm not on edge with.
Into taking walks or going to events or some such and just go out and see new places whatever they might be.

Looks?

As long as their not fat and take care of their appearance. And are decent looking. Theres alot of different looking women who look nice in some way.


Probably a whole list of other stuff.