What do men want?

Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 10:27 am

six and less talking.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 10:25 am

A girl who shares my interests (music, tv, movies etc...and it's a plus if she's a gamer), who is intelligent and I can maintain a conversation, hopefully my age (or near), I prefer a that girl isn't taller than me, as for looks anything that's not extreme when it comes to body and that's pretty :shrug:
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 2:01 am

The willingness to sleep with me and make it seem like my idea.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 9:44 am

Haha, don't worry about it, I used to get panic attacks just from getting on the bus, and I'd always rather be the one who talks too much than the one who acts like a mute - people will always be more interested in those with opinions than those who say nothing in a conversation. Embrace your gobbiness! :P

Oh good. You know, when men say things like "I hate it when women talk so much" I'm always like "do they?" :blink:

Then I worry that maybe I don't notice because I do the same amount of talking. Most men do seem to switch off if you're not talking about something incredibly relevant to that moment. Whereas women tend to listen and respond.



I guess in this case we can add "gobby pvssyrbox" to my list. :P
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:42 pm

Oh good. You know, when men say things like "I hate it when women talk so much" I'm always like "do they?" :blink:

Whereas women tend to listen and respond.

My experience has been they talk and respond. Like "How was your day?" and before you can say anything she says "Mine was horrible" and then you start to think about things like power tools, when out of nowhere comes "Are you even listening to me?".
I usually just say "NOPE", we both chuckle, then I punch her in the face.
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 8:25 pm

My experience has been they talk and respond. Like "How was your day?" and before you can say anything she says "Mine was horrible" and then you start to think about things like power tools, when out of nowhere comes "Are you even listening to me?".
I usually just say "NOPE", we both chuckle, then I punch her in the face.

Well yes, I do know women like that as well...



And yes, I'm aware that when I said "I'm always like" I sounded like a high school girl...



EDIT, spelling: "Hugh Shool"? sounds like some obscure Jewish festival. :P
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:20 pm

My experience has been they talk and respond. Like "How was your day?" and before you can say anything she says "Mine was horrible" and then you start to think about things like power tools, when out of nowhere comes "Are you even listening to me?".
I usually just say "NOPE", we both chuckle, then I punch her in the face.

Ah yes, the old make-joke-punch-faceroo. I knew the guy who first came up with it, I did.
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:38 pm

Because it seems that humor and insincerity dominates this thread (I hope that's what it is), I saw a sign that said:

~WANTED~
Good Woman
Able to Clean,
Cook, Sew, Dig Worms,
and Clean Fish.
Must have boat and motor.
Please send pictures of
Boat and Motor.

Me? I've been married so long I forgot what it was that I wanted in the first place. But WAIT!.......I remember something.......
I like six after the first pot of coffee.
Why does it always have to be just before getting kicked into the guest room when I'm dead tired?
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 8:46 pm

It depends on the man ofcourse. There isn't one woman that all men can worship except Jessica Alba.

Some traits that I personally look for is cheeriness, a general positive attitude, confidence, boobs, and the ability to appreciate what others do for them. The last one is the most important I think. As long as a girl knows that a guy cares for her, then she can be as mopey, and doubtful of herself as she wants. The guy can fix everything else.
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 10:33 pm

Big boobies.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:29 am

If I were single again, and Initially for looks, mainly dark haired or red heads with curves. I cant lie right, looks is what starts the whole chase. When I say curves I mean women who are not super skinny.
I generally like them to be around my age and hieght isnt a big issue unless there below 5 foot. I like a women with a sense of humor, someone with integrity and self respect. NO drugs, can socially drink without going over board everytime and smoking cigs isnt a big deal unless they chain smoke. I like a smart girl who works hard and has plans to becoming everything she wants to be in life. If she can cook that would be just a bonus because I normally do all the cooking anyways.

That isnt asking for much is it?
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 5:41 am

This question seems to be directed so much at women, but I reckon many women are wondering the same thing. :) So, I figured this place has a lot of men viewing - what are your opinions concerning the opposite (or same) six? Is there a physical "type" you go for, or is it more a set of personality traits? Or are you fairly easygoing, and there's just a list of absolute turnoffs (like a no cats/dogs rule?), or a mix of the three? List your perfect partner here - I'm interested to see if there are common qualities that you guys love or avoid.
Thanks for taking part!


1. I must love her.
2. She must love me back.

That's about the base of it all. As you can see I'm a bit of a romantic. Both of those things are also probably mutually exclusive too for a wide variety of reasons. :lmao:
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:38 am

1. I must love her.
2. She must love me back.

That's about the base of it all. As you can see I'm a bit of a romantic. Both of those things are also probably mutually exclusive too for a wide variety of reasons. :lmao:

Why is it th romantics seem to be the ones who spend the least amount of time in a relationship?
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:10 am

What I want is both simple, and if you dig deeper..complicated. I rather keep it simple. I want a girl who's like me, but not entirely like me in all aspects. Someone I'm physically attracted to and who can stand to be with me. Everything else is small and while it can have an effect on my decision on whether or not I want to be with a girl..it's not entirely important because it'd have to be a bunch of those small things to make the final decision.

I've yet to meet a girl who I am physically attracted to (not that picky) as well as being attracted to her personality who also wants to be with me/can stand me. It usually ends at the first thing, the girl is physically attractive but her personality doesn't vibe with me. Not so picky about physical features, pretty picky about personality because I'm not an easy person to be with and I don't want people getting hurt.

Maybe I take it to seriously, I don't know. I'm okay with the fact I may never meet someone that fits that, but my tastes may change as I get older.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:45 am

Why is it th romantics seem to be the ones who spend the least amount of time in a relationship?


Because romanticism is the kind of thing that dwells so much on idealized everything that when you get to real life it just doesn't seem to compare, and you end up let down that love really doesn't work the way it does it the books. So you end up with an impossible standard that will never be met.

It also helps that I'm a bastard hermit misanthropist who is happier alone than with any other person. I love love, but it just ain't for me. :laugh:
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 11:12 am

Someone I'm physically attracted to and who can stand to be with me.


I think that pretty much sums it up right there. You'd think a girl like that would be easy to find.
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:40 pm

Is there a physical "type" you go for, or is it more a set of personality traits? Or are you fairly easygoing, and there's just a list of absolute turnoffs (like a no cats/dogs rule?), or a mix of the three? List your perfect partner here - I'm interested to see if there are common qualities that you guys love or avoid.


I'm a bit picky on the physical side, I've never liked a girl who wasn't beautiful. But personality matters the most, if it's a hot girl but she's a [censored] or just stupid in general I'd never care about her.

The truth is that as long as you are yourself, somebody will like you.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:16 am

Because romanticism is the kind of thing that dwells so much on idealized everything that when you get to real life it just doesn't seem to compare, and you end up let down that love really doesn't work the way it does it the books. So you end up with an impossible standard that will never be met.

What you have to do is make normalcy your ideal, then you will rarely be alone!
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:51 am

ITT: Virgins....virgins everywhere. :P

I'd also like a girl who wasn't just interested in my looks. I tend to find bigger girls don't do this as much.

So, if your desperate, find a fat chick with a nice face, and slim her down. Problem solved!
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:33 pm

I'd also like a girl who wasn't just interested in my looks.



Assuming that your avatar is you, you can balance a shoe on your head. On your head. If I was a woman, I'd be stalking you already.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:30 am

I love love, but it just ain't for me. :laugh:

I get the image of you having some kind of small love museum in your house, like someone collecting WW2 memorabilia. Only with love. Boy that wouldn't be creepy for visitors at all.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:51 am

I'd say personality is more important for me. Heres a list of what I'd want from a girlfriend

Honesty
Equal or higher intelligence than me, smart girls are cool.
Same or at least shared interests.
sense of humor
laid back
Kind
Thoughtful
Loyal

That and for me to be physically attracted to her would be a bonus. If she is a Nerdfighter that would really top it off. http://www.youtube.com/user/meekakitty is my, as John Green would put it manic pixie dream girl.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:05 am

I don't really look for anything in a woman. In the sense that I never made a list and if a woman doesn't apply to the tickboxes then she's out. I just take what comes, everyone is different. Then I decide if the person is for me (granted that I've only had to make a decision like this twice, both were "no").

It's interesting though that other people here have lists so to speak.
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Post » Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:02 am

I don't have any appearance preferences whatsoever. Like seriously none.

I know far too many attractive looking skanks to factor appearance in anymore. Also having been fat at one point myself (Almost obese in fact, there are pics in the old BGSF pics thread) I know that weight doesn't change who a person is. I am who I was 20Kg ago. Same thing with anyone else.
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Post » Fri Feb 18, 2011 8:28 pm

I get the image of you having some kind of small love museum in your house, like someone collecting WW2 memorabilia. Only with love. Boy that wouldn't be creepy for visitors at all.


That's what the Anime is for. :shifty:

And hey, it's not my fault I'm perfectly comfortable with the http://www.hongfire.com/cg/data/25/caramelldansen.swf.
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