I met the fallout universe with the release of Fo3.
That is more than obvious.
I've already stated before that I prefer it over NV. (but once again, this isn't the issue we are discussing)
Regardless of whether or not you like Fallout 3, it is still canon.
Lorewise it didn't add anything new, that wasn't already introduced before
No amount of your hatred can demote that game to the levels of Fallout: Brotherhood of Steel.
Safe for..i'm not doing this at all. Fallout 3 is very fun, and spent a good 200 hrs in it, and played all the DLC. It has lots of stuff to keep you entertained for a good while. I just wouldn't take it as a prime example for good stroy-telling and writing.
Fallout: Brotherhood of Steel btw, was a pretty nice Diablo-like Action-RPG at the time. I've never been in the hate-camp for that, too.
As such, I am more than capable of evaluating lore with examples from a game that is considered canon (Fallout 3).
And completely ignoring those games (FO1/2) who delivered all of the lore concepts for FO3? Suuuure.
Furthermore, I would like to express that I have played through Fallout 1/2 and Tactics numerous times and am well acquainted with the lore.
No, you didn't and you aren't.
If that was case, you would know for example, that the faction system you don't like, was an integral part from the beginning. FNV just re-introduced it. No wonder, as Obsidian still has a considerable number of the original Fallout crew in their ranks.
Also Fallout wasn't at all about some a simple black'n white morale story about daaaaaaark villains and white knights in shining armor.
It was always about lots of grey shades, about choosing the lesser evil (or the greater one, if you felt like it). It gave you the chance to influence your environment in any way you wanted to.
What you feel emotionally attached too, is just dirt cheap to me. You know what made me feel attached?
Dealing with the stories of Boone, Raul or Veronica. Talking to Pretty Sarah. Getting to know what made Hanlon acting the way he acted.
THAT is good and believable writing to me, all these minor and major human tragedies you're being confronted with. THAT makes me feeling attached.
Fallout 3 gave you a big robot, McGready and skeletons with toasters in a tub instead.
What really reeks out of your lines is, that you find FNV morally too complicated, and that there's no supa dupa hero ending of one person single-handedly deciding the fate of the world for you.
You know, you can have your opinion, not a problem at all.
But packing that into a headline called "What NOT do to with Fallout" and trying to underline your opinion and wishes with canon and lore is a bit brazen.