This page comes from the UESP and doesn't cite its sources, so take it with a grain of salt, but I think it's a good reference for the nature of the atronaches.
http://uesp.net/wiki/Lore:Elemental_Daedra
As for your fourth question, it could be possible that Martin's sacrifice placed stricter restrictions on the Princes and their minions, and as independent spirits the atronaches are more receptive to a conjurer's summons. That's just me spitballing though