Here's another vote for "explore." I'll explore a city first and talk to everyone. Visit a bookshop, if said city has one, and buy any new books that I can afford, or keep in mind certain titles to buy when I can afford them. I'll get whatever quests I can, then go out and explore and maybe complete a side quest. I'll join whatever guilds I run into, unless joining one means I can't join another. From there, there's no predicting what I'll do. It all depends on what side quests seem interesting, which factions seem interesting, and how interesting the main quest is at the start.
i'll beat up an innocent woman, take off her clothes and admire from all angles, then load my last save and start exploring.
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