Well...

The first thing that comes to mind is someone that I can talk hours on end with about anything. I'd like him to be fairly intelligent and down to earth, as well as being open to sharing my passions and beliefs, and sharing his with me. I'd like him to introduce me to new and exciting things from his life. A good, unique sense of humor is a massive plus, as long as he's still mature and sensible. Someone who does small, sweet things that make me smile. Money isn't a huge factor, but he should use it sensibly and have a fair idea of where he's going career-wise.

One of the biggest things is that he must be honest with me. I doesn't matter what awful thing he's done, as long as he's honest with me I'm going to feel a lot better about it. I want to trust him, and I want him to trust me. Most of all, he should love me, and realise that I get angry and upset sometimes, often over little things. He should show emotion around me too, because then I know that he's being honest with me.

As far as looks go, I'm not too fussed. I tend to prefer guys with brown hair, but as long as he has a nice, sweet smile it doesn't bother me. I'd like him to give good hugs too. Bonus if he likes Top Gear

I'm only young though, and I've never really been in a proper relationship, so I suppose what I look for/appreciate in men will change as I get older :shrug:

So what if he was a blonde bloke?

Exactly.

I'll trade you guys all the sandwiches you can eat for blood.

But I dun like sandwiches! And, you know you can break into a blood bank.

A sense of humour, and being able to not take himself overly serious all the time. Personality is number one for me. Charisma makes a man much more attractive in my eyes.

What good is blood if it's not fresh and willingly sacrificed to me personally?

Do you want me to sacrifice virgins atop a stone altar, the blood running down caught by several small pots, that will be offered to you? Afterall, virgin blood is pure. Give me a Dr Pepper of cuppa tea for each kilo of blood, m'okay?

++++++++++++++++++

God, I found the most perfect bra recently and I don't want to take it off. Finally! You'd think finding at 34C bra isn't difficult, but all the ones I found cut into you like mad.

..Anyway.

Intelligence in a man is very nice.

If the virgins are male, you've got yourself a deal.

Now why are all the ladies asking for intellect? You know us dudes don't use our brains. We thrive on manly things.


*sigh* Fine, just so long as I'm spared. Ni!? Could you do me a favour and lie on that altar?

-Now why would I want to do that?-

I'm gonna sacrifice your blood to Troyatz.

- *shrugs* Fair enough -

Let's keep it simple.
- In public, treat me with respect
- In private, treat me with equality
- In intimacy... flip me over like a pancake, babe!

(Note that this is easily appliable to men too, with some variation about the pancake.)


Yes, that too. We loose so much of it, where do you think we find some new?

So, so far common traits are confidence, dedication and a sense of humor. So, yeah I'm sure there are plenty folk out there that fit the bill.

Don't know about the blood part though. Whatever happened to wanting a box of chocolates or a walk in the park? Damn Twilight ruining everything for us....

Chocolate is still good, prefer that over a bunch of flowers, really.

About Twilight, we're talking about what women want right, not girls?!?!

Talking about love movies, this is the only one worth mentionning. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0160916/.

I am surprised Edward hasn't been mentioned yet. Maybe BSF girls don't care for Twilight perchance? After all TES vampires are nothing like Edward or the Werewolves nothing like Jacob. Oh damn what did I do? We all know that Bethesda likes to go where the "common gamer" goes, so maybe within the next 6 months, we will have glittering vampires that look like Edward now in Skyrim. :facepalm:

Well that′s the problem, humans are still very much wired to be attracted to certain qualities in the opposite six, even if they don′t make much sense these days.

For men it is the obvious health and looks, we′re attracted to women who look like they are young (blond hair) and look like they would have a easy time bearing children, then of course big briasts and hips/buttocks is a sign that the female has a mature enough body to mate and have kids.

For women however it is attitude and material wealth, women are attracted to men who act like they are the boss, who act alpha, the act of putting another male down to express dominance can be very attractive to a woman, then comes material wealth, women are wired to desire men who can support them and their children, if the man has wealth then looks don′t matter too much.

We all like to pretend and say "oh but I′m not like that" but we all are largely like that, it′s actually a pretty big thing for a man to ignore the looks of a woman and for a woman to settle down with a man who does not act alpha and/or is not very wealthy at the time.

Edit: To clarify why I write this it is to support him for changing himself, if he wants a girl he needs to be someone who he is not, being nice and mellow won′t get him anywhere. I don′t think I want to change myself for any woman but it′s a bit clear that if I don′t change or come across wealth I′m not very high on the "desirable men" list, but hey, no hurry here, we humans are overpopulating anyway

Hmm... that seems easy enough. I can do this easily.

This is so true.

Woman have many wants and needs including, but not limited to, http://laracroft.wikia.com/wiki/File:Tomb_Raider_8_-_14.jpg, http://laracroft.wikia.com/wiki/File:Tomb_Raider_8_-_9.jpg, http://img.engadget.com/common/images/4575937614869136.JPG?0.8624495567024028, http://media.comicvine.com/uploads/0/3133/140670-187160-lasso-of-truth_large.jpg, http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20100708152121/laracroft/images/9/92/Tomb_Raider_7_-_5.jpg, http://c.universalscraps.com/files/en/powerpuff.girls/powerpuff_girls_052.jpg... http://batmanlegacy.webs.com/photos/VILLIANS/Catwoman.jpg... hmmm... I think I know what I'm getting my female friends for christmas...

Oh, that primal need! Yes, we are driven by it. Everyone fancies the bestest of best, but when it comes down to it, we look for a partner in life.

By the way, nature tends to tell men "get many women, you'll get many offsprings". On the women side, natures tells them "Find stable, secure man to raise offspring, find alpha men, strong and beautiful to make strong children, don't tell stable man, make him care for them." That's a side of woman we don't hear much about. We like looking and maybe have an affair with the alpha type, but that man is not the kind we want for a long term relationship. Now, don't be scared, not all woman will go around your back. It's just that I'm tired to hear some unfaithful guys saying its in their nature to be so. Women can be [censored]y too. Anyway, in a civilised society, we all want civilised campanion. It's ok to be aware of this primal feature, don't let it ruin (and rule) your life!

Girls on BGSF > Other girls. In quality ofcourse, not quantity.

(That is, assuming they actually are girls)

So I doubt they'd care for the stuff annoying, boring, ordinary chicks like, so that might include Twilight, but I can't be sure!

I second this. About 95% of the girls I have encountered during my 19 year existence have been very very [censored]y and have unattractive personalities.

This isn't all true, especially the girl's part. As a guy I'm going to be straight up and admit looks attract me, I want a partner who I am attracted too, you can call me shallow or whatever but most guys are like this. This doesn't mean that every guy wants a Megan Fox or Jessica Alba, just that they want someone who has a similar level of looks. On the girls side not every girl wants gorillas who are [censored]s. Obviously looks are important, but not as much as they are for guys. Its impossible to say because every girl is different, but confidence (note, not cockiness) is very important. Present yourself assertively and girls and guys respond to that. Nobody likes people who act like total asses and always try to be the boss. No offense, but whenever I hear someone say what you said, and trust me because I've said it before, it's a genuine nice person who has very little confidence or experience with women and is frustrated why they always get passed up.

I bet 90 percent of BGSF members are girls. They just lie about their gender out of shame.

I don't agree with this part. In the sense that I believe looks are just as important for women as they are for men. At least for the average guy/woman.

I never noticed much difference dating someone from BGSF and otherwise. That's just perception -- each person has their own issues that can, by their own quantitative means, cause a relationship to collapse.

^ To the above pots, women will give different answers since, well, beyond the obvious rationale of personality, not all of them have the same maturity level, nor the same reasons for being in a relationship. Most of the girls I knew back in high school just wanted a guy to spend time with, guys wanted a girl to bone, both of them realized that having a bf/gf meant status.. both full of themselves. Once finished with the immature years where one's self is the near-exclusive focus, one is supposed to learn more about the other person and find out what it takes to make and maintain a relationship, and finding out that every day doesn't need to be a trip to the movies or something on a grand scale. That is, presuming they want a long-term monogamous relationship. Some take longer to mature and figure themselves and relationships out, others get the hang of it pretty fast and also find out that it takes effort.