» Thu May 19, 2011 2:36 am
It's not people wanting features in the game that sets people off about whining. It's a certain style of rhetoric commonly abused by people critical of Bethesda's design decisions, which is practically designed to antagonize absolutely everyone.
The biggest offender is the term "dumbing down." It's an incredibly condescending label, applied to every single design decision Bethesda makes, with connotations that completely destroy any chance of the person using the term making a credible argument. By saying that a design decision constitutes "dumbing down," to appeal to a wider but inferior audience, you're saying that anyone who doesn't hate the decision just as much as you do is part of that wider audience, and therefore an idiot. The same basic problem is exacerbated by the PC/console divide. Any time a PC gamer plays console gamers for a design decision they don't like (and notice that this never happens in reverse) the message they get across isn't, "this is a bad design decision," it's "you're a bad person and you don't deserve to play games."
This is part of a more general theme of exclusionary rhetoric, the implicit accusation that anyone who doesn't share your exact opinions just isn't as good as you. The title of this very thread implies that anybody who isn't upset already is something so insulting the forum actually has to censor it, and that their opinion therefore isn't valid. The OP continues this same theme. First, it generalizes the other side and tries to label them all as extremists. The OP essentially says that everyone who isn't already upset about the direction of the game is a mindless drone who believes Bethesda is always right, and will defend their decisions to the death. As if it weren't possible to like something without thinking it was perfect. Ironically, this has a further implication that the OP probably didn't intend - if everyone who isn't upset with the entire game believes every decision Bethesda makes is perfect and should be defended to the death, then, logically, anyone who criticizes any of Bethesda's decisions must be upset with the entire game.
That so many objections are just kneejerk reactions doesn't help, either. Any design decision Bethesda makes will be criticized, and a lot of the criticism is just going to be about how it's not how it used to be, or not how that person, personally would have done it. When somebody just blindly complains about a decision and then casually insults you in the process, of course you're going to try to defend the decision. At the very least, you're going to explain why you have a legitimate reason for not thinking the decision proves that Skyrim will be the worst game ever. Intelligent counter-arguments are dismissed. Hell, look at this very thread and you'll see posts that translate roughly to, "You're just mindlessly defending Bethesda! How dare you not hate all the things I hate, monster?" Mindless criticism is repeated. If you, personally, do not approve, then anyone who does approve must be part of the Evil Conspiracy To Make Bad Games.
In other words, people arguing against the removal of their pet features have a bad habit of using rhetoric that turns their message into "Everyone who doesn't hate Skyrim is a bad person (possibly a corporate shill or bipedal sheep), and should stop playing games so that games can be fun." I hope you can see why people don't respond well to this. Obviously, not everyone (or even most people) on the pro-pet-feature side uses that rhetoric (there's a lot of entirely sensible people in this very thread who seem to be genuinely confused why people are reacting to their issues the way they are) and there are in fact genuinely good arguments in favor of features that have been removed, but there's enough elitism on that side to color every criticism of the game. People get defensive, and a little vindictive. And when so many of the complaints are mindless and insulting, well, why bother to pay attention at all?
tl;dr: People aren't listening to you because you sound like http://www.theonion.com/articles/man-who-enjoys-thing-informed-he-is-wrong,7057/.