This aspect of this forum always reminds me of political forums and partisans, and I don't think that's a coincidence.
We all define ourselves in particular ways. Among the ways in which people define themselves is a reference to their support for an external organization or idea or pastime. It's a thing that they consider to be a mark of distinction - they are liberals or conservatives or Christians or atheists or otakus or juggalos or....... Bethesda fans. And since that allegiance serves as part of their self-perception, and they have the fundamental need to believe that they possess self-worth, they have to believe that that allegiance contributes to their self-worth. And the corollary to that is that any implication that the thing with which they've aligned themselves is in any way less deserving of their support than they believe it to be cannot be tolerated. That's the source of the often otherwise inexplicable hostility that you see here (and anywhere else where fans gather) at any criticism of the thing of which they are fans. Such criticism, since it undermines the purported value of the thing the fandom of which serves as a part of their self perception, is not simply an assault on the game or the developer, but on them personally. Since they derive some sense of their own value from associating themselves with the perceived value of the thing in question, anything that might serve to devalue the thing in question serves to devalue them.
And that's why they tend to respond to every single criticism, no matter what it might be, and respond to argue with it, no matter the logical contortions and flawed arguments they might have to rely on to do so. It's not really based on anolyzing something, coming to a conclusion, then expressing that conclusion, but instead on presuming the value of a thing first, investing themselves into a belief in that value, then defending their belief in that value. And they're so often hostile about it because, since they've invested themselves into that thing, they see any assault on the thing in question to be an assault on them personally. And they tend to grow increasingly hostile as they lose ground in an argument, simply because that brings them closer to the point at which they might have to reassess their own self-identification, and that's something they simply don't want to do.
Look up cognitive dissonance and confirmation bias for much more information on the dynamics of all of that.
To the specific question in the title of the thread - what it would take would vary from one person to another, but here's an odd thing about that - if Beth were to go beyond the point of whatever it would take to overcome the reflexive support of a particular fan, that fan would then become one of the harshest critics. It would be seen as a betrayal - here they've invested so much of themselves into supporting and defending Beth - into being there for them through thick and thin - and then Beth went and stabbed them in the back.
And in that context, one might look at the registration dates of many of the harshest critics here and wonder how they came to be so harsh in their criticisms............
And note - if one has defined oneself as a Beth critic - all of the above still tends to hold true, with the only difference being that it's the value and justification of being a Beth critic that must be defended at all costs. And that's why the ugliest battles are always between the "[censored]" and the "haters." Each side has an emotional investment in their view - each side has adopted that view as part of their self-identity - so each side takes it personally.
We all define ourselves in particular ways. Among the ways in which people define themselves is a reference to their support for an external organization or idea or pastime. It's a thing that they consider to be a mark of distinction - they are liberals or conservatives or Christians or atheists or otakus or juggalos or....... Bethesda fans. And since that allegiance serves as part of their self-perception, and they have the fundamental need to believe that they possess self-worth, they have to believe that that allegiance contributes to their self-worth. And the corollary to that is that any implication that the thing with which they've aligned themselves is in any way less deserving of their support than they believe it to be cannot be tolerated. That's the source of the often otherwise inexplicable hostility that you see here (and anywhere else where fans gather) at any criticism of the thing of which they are fans. Such criticism, since it undermines the purported value of the thing the fandom of which serves as a part of their self perception, is not simply an assault on the game or the developer, but on them personally. Since they derive some sense of their own value from associating themselves with the perceived value of the thing in question, anything that might serve to devalue the thing in question serves to devalue them.
And that's why they tend to respond to every single criticism, no matter what it might be, and respond to argue with it, no matter the logical contortions and flawed arguments they might have to rely on to do so. It's not really based on anolyzing something, coming to a conclusion, then expressing that conclusion, but instead on presuming the value of a thing first, investing themselves into a belief in that value, then defending their belief in that value. And they're so often hostile about it because, since they've invested themselves into that thing, they see any assault on the thing in question to be an assault on them personally. And they tend to grow increasingly hostile as they lose ground in an argument, simply because that brings them closer to the point at which they might have to reassess their own self-identification, and that's something they simply don't want to do.
Look up cognitive dissonance and confirmation bias for much more information on the dynamics of all of that.
To the specific question in the title of the thread - what it would take would vary from one person to another, but here's an odd thing about that - if Beth were to go beyond the point of whatever it would take to overcome the reflexive support of a particular fan, that fan would then become one of the harshest critics. It would be seen as a betrayal - here they've invested so much of themselves into supporting and defending Beth - into being there for them through thick and thin - and then Beth went and stabbed them in the back.
And in that context, one might look at the registration dates of many of the harshest critics here and wonder how they came to be so harsh in their criticisms............
And note - if one has defined oneself as a Beth critic - all of the above still tends to hold true, with the only difference being that it's the value and justification of being a Beth critic that must be defended at all costs. And that's why the ugliest battles are always between the "[censored]" and the "haters." Each side has an emotional investment in their view - each side has adopted that view as part of their self-identity - so each side takes it personally.
Would you please stop saying these astoundingly insightful things. If I keep compliment you, someone is going to accuse me of having a mancrush :spotted owl: :wub: , and I am going to have to start bashing heads, and end up getting banned, so just stop it with all the perceptive, well informed dissertations, please. Lol