What do you do when you think a kid is getting abused?

Post » Sun May 29, 2011 2:42 am

There are no children's homes here, there are foster families and facilities, who are paid by the state to take care of abused and neglected children. Sadly, many foster children go from the frying pan into the fire, treated little more than a paycheck, herded like cattle or second class citizens. Many are moved from place to place with no consistency. Florida has historically had a less than perfect system, with workers not visiting assigned homes or checking on children, yet claiming to, or custodial parents taking money for children that have disappeared, to god knows where.
We've had reports of babies and children being beaten, drowned, sold, and worse, by the very family/facility charged with their safety.

That's very regional and depends highly on the family, I know plenty of decent people who grew up in perfectly fine foster homes, but the child social services here are like the child safety Gestapo here. :toughninja:
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Sophie Payne
 
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Post » Sun May 29, 2011 2:47 am

Oh yeah. I can't believe some of the things people do to babies. We had a case in NZ where one was put in a washing machine and hung out to dry. It's one of the most disgusting things I've ever heard.

Sadly I can beat that.

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wrapped in aluminum foil and stuck in a microwave

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Chenae Butler
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 1:30 pm

Sadly I can beat that.

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wrapped in aluminum foil and stuck in a microwave


I've heard much, much worse.
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Darlene DIllow
 
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Post » Sun May 29, 2011 2:27 am

I've heard much, much worse.

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Kari Depp
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 8:24 pm

Well, OP, nothing we say on here can make you do anything, so it's all up to you. If you really believe that the child is being abused, then I hope you make the right choice; one that will not make your conscience eat you alive.
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Katy Hogben
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 6:19 pm

In this situation, it would be best to call the authorities. Right now, the kid is getting terribly bruised from the beatings. I was abused as a child, and I can tell you things will get worse for him if this isn't stopped. The beatings will intensify. A leather belt, garden hose, or worse will likely be used on him at some point. He may get locked in a closet for days on end (without food and/or water in some instances). The list goes on. You have a chance to keep him from going through that hell. Please take it.
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Natalie J Webster
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 8:04 pm

I've heard much, much worse.


If you can beat what is hidden in those spoiler tags, please, for the love of god, DO NOT post it. I am literally ill feeling now after having read that. I can just see it inside my head....I feel like I'm about to vomit. alkrdjgdjkf; Blech.

That was seriously the last thing I needed inside my head. It won't go away now. I"m like shaking ><

To the OP, Please, having been a victim of abuse by my biological mother, and now knowing how much worse my older sisters had it, I truly wish someone had noticed something and called Social Services. So, call them, don't wait, I'm sure they have a 24 hour hotline that you can call and be anonymous.
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Anna Krzyzanowska
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 2:55 pm

It's been said a million times in the thread but call the Police/Social Services.
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Mackenzie
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 8:11 pm

you can theoretically talk to your parents, emphasizing to them that you are trusting them to help but not rush anything and then tell what it is about when they say they'll try or something. then go from there. one, they should see this as you becoming smarter and mature person. two, your and their relationship will be better for it.

or get someone to call child services. someone who can handle this as a mature person.

i'd say there needs to be found a way to make the child's parent see their fault. but don't run off building a collage of evidence to provide them with. rather, see if you can find someone who had dealt with issues of child abuse. or was a child abused. ask mom and dad if you can invite them (the neighbors or the people wish to involve) over for say, dinner, or if the child is your age, maybe have him over to play video games or they are too reluctant to let him to a stranger's house, maybe play outside. or something. you and your parents, if they agree to help, build a relationship bridge that you can later get to them over and make them see the problem. you don't have to tell your parents what this is about, even(not yet anyway) and just try and make it like maybe a get to know our neighbors better type of thing. if you have a church nearby, especially if you are going there, talk to one of their leaders. they know what to do no worse than your parents. if you don't want them to get involved, then just say that some Christian(that being me) said to ask them that they and their church need to be praying for this one person and this one family in this one delicate situation and for you, since you are getting involved in this(and your parent, if you think to get them involved). and when you talk to the church leaders, you don't even have to give them details, they should understand even if you don't give them details.
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 11:38 am

Contact the authoroties right now. That or nothing, and doing nothing is the worst thing you could do.

And don't worry about orphanage, it's so much better than getting abused by those people, this kid will meet other kids who have experienced hardships and will get a good chance at getting on and getting a good life.
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Joanne Crump
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 5:23 pm

That was seriously the last thing I needed inside my head. It won't go away now. I"m like shaking ><


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Brian LeHury
 
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Post » Sun May 29, 2011 12:10 am

You gotta call the cps (child protective services) it may not make u feel better but at least u exposed his parents...
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Sara Lee
 
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Post » Sat May 28, 2011 6:15 pm

Oh yeah. I can't believe some of the things people do to babies. We had a case in NZ where one was put in a washing machine and hung out to dry. It's one of the most disgusting things I've ever heard.

If I was witness to something like the OP, I'd try to stop it as soon as possible.

I'm speechless against this. It's horrilbe, dark and evil.

But yes, OP, call the authorities ASAP.
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jodie
 
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Post » Sun May 29, 2011 2:01 am

Call child protective services now.
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